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 Living in Fear - - An Oxymoron
 


Shit happens. Let's get that out of the way upfront. Unless you spend your entire life inside of a hermetically sealed room where no one ever visits you, then SOMETHING will happen to you during the course of your life.

You might be mugged.

You might be hit by a romantic partner.

You might get involved with someone who abuses substances.

You might be sexually assaulted.

You might be lied to by someone you trust.

Your romantic partner might have an affair.

Your house might be the target of vandals.

Your car might be broken into.

Someone might call you nasty names.

A teacher might denigrate you and your abilities.

You might get fired for no reason.

The list could go on and on and on - - if you interact with other humans and the natural environment, then you will get some metaphoric scrapes and scabs and scars and other stuff that starts with the letter "s". Ooooh, syphillis - - that's a good one that I missed!

The variety of injuries you can and probably will encounter while living your life is kinda endless, but there's one common denominator - - YOU. Yup, you might be the subject of a person or property crime, and you will have done nothing to bring that on yourself. However, you have all the power and control in the world when it comes to dealing with what happens to you. More than that, you actually have an obligation to yourself and everyone who interacts with you to deal with it as best as possible and GO ON LIVING YOUR LIFE.

Getting hit by your romantic partner is a rotten thing - - so what do you do with that? Will that one moment in time affect the way you conduct your entire adult life? Will you decide to be perpetually afraid and timid and cowed? Will a raised voice always have the power to paralyze you? That's a choice YOU have made, not the abuser. The abuser made a rotten choice in striking you - - but don't allow the abuser to continue to dictate YOUR choices from that point on.

Your life is yours and no one else's. As an adult, you always hold the cards and get to make all the calls related to your life. Under no circumstances should you abdicate that responsibility to another person who appeared only momentarily in your existence.

Don't just talk - - DO.

Don't just complain - - CHANGE.

Don't just suffer - - ACT.

"So, listen, listen, this is good: I usually believe our action - with clear vision - is more important than prayer."
~ His Holiness, the Dalai Lama

"So, listen, listen, this isn't as good as my pal Lama's quote but it's pretty good - - who the hell told you that you would cruise through life with nary a bump nor a bruise? Life is messy, life sometimes hurts, life is unpredictable - - it always has been and it always will be. Deal with it. See? It's not as good as the Dalai Lama's quote but it has MORE WORDS."
~ The Valkyrie, e-reverend since 2003 and irreverent always

Posted by The Valkyrie at 6:28 PM - 21 Comments   Add a Comment  
 

 Tagged By Chanda - - And, BOY, Does My Ear Hurt
 


Blogstream Tag - - OK, I'll play. But only because Chanda's "Five Things I Once Heard and Have Never Forgotten" made me laugh out loud.

FIVE THINGS I'VE HEARD & NEVER FORGOTTEN
by Valkyrie Q. Snarfblatt



1) There's more than one way to skin a cat. Me, I thought there was just the one way, and this changed my world.

2) If you laugh while eating a dill pickle, chances are a piece of the pickle will make it's way into your nose and be expelled violently and painfully. Fun for all ages!

3) Humans taste like pork.

4) Dozens of cops, DAs, social workers, and probation officers calling juvenile offenders "bad" and "maggots" - - age and appearance profiling is alive and well, and this pervasive attitude sets me on fire to be an advocate for those kids.

5) The best joke ever: How would you describe a person who is an insomniac agnostic dyslexic? As someone who lies awake at night wondering if there's a dog.

So, now it's time to tag four other residents of blogstream - - I select these worthy warriors for truth and justice and Taoism:

* Vessel

* Wayfarer

* Mokie Joe

* Not A Cynic

Boys, it's your turn now. I've got money on the number of times that "yabos" turns up in your posts.

Posted by The Valkyrie at 2:07 PM - 29 Comments   Add a Comment  
 

 Dating 101 - - For Men
 


Mmmmmmmmm, I love the smell of unsolicited advice in the morning. Except it's now about 3:50 p.m. MST, but let's not quibble about time zones and meridians. This is about unsolicited but much needed advice.

You might not know this already, but I is a WO-man. Yeah, that's right - - an Okie white trash hetero WO-man, crossed with judgmental Viking wargoddess. This heritage uniquely qualifies me as a dating advisor for all you poor, clueless humans who have been handicapped by a Y chromosome.........



So, you want to graduate from the inflatable datables to a real, live woman - - well, 9 out of 10 real, live women agree on the following guidelines:

BEFORE THE DATE

* Feller, groom thyself. Most women (7 out of 10) don't really care all that much if you're decked out in a Hugo Boss suit or clad in flannel (well, they might care if you're clad in head-to-toe flannel sleepers for the date - - just one of those exceptions). What most women (8.5 out of 10) WILL care about is that you're clean, that you've blown your nose, that you've brushed AND flossed your teeth, that you've trimmed off your coke-pinkie-nail, and that you've taken a moment to trim the nosehair. Just the basics.

* Go easy on the scented stuff, handsome. There ain't nuthin' that smells better than a clean man - - no need to cover up the Clean Man scent with sharp, fussy, smelly crap. OK, you can put some on your feet where it'll do some good.

* Consider wearing a kilt. Or an eyepatch. Or maybe that's just me.

* Scoop some of that trash off the passenger seat in your car. Week-old french fries don't really work like a dangly scented pine tree.

* If you're gonna give her something (get your mind outta the gutter), be original - - a Pez thingy that reflects something about her, Silly Putty (who doesn't love Silly Putty?), or a garden snake that you killed with your own hands. Just some ideas.

ON THE DATE

* This is huge - - if you haven't been writing anything down before this, get a pen: Encourage your woman to talk about herself. Yes, Mr. Man, you ARE the most fascinating creature on earth and the minutiae of your life is infinitely captivating - - but you want to eventually get some, dontcha? If you get your date talking about herself and you actively engage in the conversation, you will have discovered the most effective aphrodisiac in the history of bipedal primates. Trust Dr. Valkyrie.

* A corrollary suggestion - - stay tuned in to your woman and stop visually cruising the place where you're having your date.

* Do not comment on her yabos. Do not comment on the yabos of the waitress. Do not comment on the yabos of your ex-girlfriend. Do not stare at the yabos on the woman across the room. Do not attempt to directly or indirectly contact your date's yabos or those of any other woman in the vicinity or on the street. YABOS ARE OFF-LIMITS COMPLETELY during the first date at minimum.

* Aside from restraining your yabo-philia, be yourself - - not yourself on steroids or what you think Ben Stiller would be like as yourself. Just yourself.

* I want to use the word "corrollary" again, so here's another corrollary suggestion to the above - - DO disagree and get into legitimate discussions. Just don't figuratively club her over the head with your opinions while completely disregarding her viewpoints.

* If you value your life, do NOT comment on how much or what she's eating, even if it's the dessert cart or a whole pig.



AFTER THE DATE

* Give it up - - no yabos for you.

* This entire entry has been quite tongue-in-cheek - - but don't go thrusting YOUR tongue into HER cheek, yeah?

* Make another date if you like her.

* If you DON'T like her, then DON'T LIE - - don't say that you had a great time, you're going to call, you can see children in your joint future. Be vague or be kind and direct.

* If you said you'd call, then CALL.

**************************************************************************************************

I'd like to invite da boyz to respond in kind and provide Dating 101 tips for women - - however, we can predict that it's highly likely to be yabo-centric and most women (8 out of 10) already know that's what y'all want but we're smart enough to hold 'em back until we're sure where your hands have been.

(The above has been a public service message on behalf of most women - - 6 out of 10 - - and has been wholly farcical and silly and jestalicious. Men who are offended are invited to call 1-800-HAVEYOUSEENMYSENSEOFHUMOR.)

Dr. Valkyrie, gunnin' for Dr. Laura.....

Posted by The Valkyrie at 6:33 PM - 25 Comments   Add a Comment  
 

 Pettiness Is SO Very Attractive...
 


"Have no fear of robbers or murderers. They are external dangers, petty dangers. We should fear ourselves. Prejudices are the real robbers; vices the real murders. The great dangers are within us. Why worry about what threatens our heads or purses? Let us think instead of what threatens our souls."

-- Victor Hugo


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 THIS Is Why Defendants Have Rights
 


From time to time, you'll hear someone complain about the rights of arrestees and criminal defendants - - there's a persistent myth that these rights interfere with the administration of justice and that "criminals get off scott-free".

The first question we must ask is: Who the hell is Scott and why has he become the foundation of a phrase like that? Why isn't it "carla-free"?????

Seriously, though - - there are reasons and history behind the right to an attorney, the right of a defendant to confront his/her accusers, the right of the defense to see evidence prior to trial, the obligation of the prosecution to share evidence that is potentially exculpatory. And here's a terrific case study:



This was Ron Williamson. He's the subject of John Grisham's latest book, "The Innocent Man", which is a nonfiction story of a horrific crime in Ada, OK, and the many mistakes that led to the conviction of two innocent men for rape and murder.

In 1982, a young woman was raped and killed in her own apartment, following an evening at a local bar. There were numerous witnesses who stated that a man named Gore had been in arguments with the woman, that he kept harrassing her, and that his ride later let him out of the car very near the woman's apartment. The crime scene contained numerous hairs, blood traces, and fingerprints - - most of which did not belong to the crime victim.

From the very beginning, the investigation was a goat rope - - the detectives on site neglected to dust many of the flat, nonporous surfaces where fingerprints might be found. When interviewing the people who had last seen the crime victim, detectives failed to obtain hair and blood samples from Gore. Gore misdirected the police by mentioning that the crime victim had complained to him about being harrassed by a local character named Ron Williamson. His misdirection worked, like the Force on the weak-minded.

With a single-mindedness which isn't exclusive to the Ada PD, the cops honed in on Ron Williamson and found ways to tie him to the crime - - his apartment was relatively nearby, his hair was allegedly similar to the samples obtained at the crime scene. Despite his alibi, Ada PD spent two years trying to create a case out of thin air, primarily relying on jailhouse snitches who had something to gain by implicating Williamson.

At the same time, the cops decided that the crime was committed by more than one person; this led them to seek known associates of Williamson, and they landed on a man named Dennis Fritz. The only provable link between Fritz and the crime was Williamson. Officers working the case badgered and threatened the suspects, extending their interrogations until the men were physically uncomfortable and exhausted, lying to them in an attempt to get them to rat each other out.

Leaning on junk science, jailhouse snitch testimony, proximity, association, and the lack of other suspects, the local District Attorney pursued Williamson and Fritz with blood lust and without regard to the truth. Both Fritz and Williamson were considered indigent and were assigned attorneys working pro bono; Williamson's lawyer was a blind attorney who didn't want to work with the mentally ill client, who received no monetary assistance in combatting hair analysis, who failed to fully explore the evidence from the police investigation (which included a confession from another jail inmate who said he killed and raped the woman - - false confession, but STILL), who never sought a competency hearing for his client. Fritz's attorney allowed the former chief of police from Ada onto the jury, a man who had a clear bias toward the cops and the prosecution.

No surprise - - in 1988, a jury of their peers convicted each man of murder, with Fritz receiving life in prison and Williamson receiving the death penalty. Williamson spent 10 years in Big Mac in McAllister, OK, quickly deteriorating on death row without medication or therapy or adequate nutrition or human contact. He came within five days of being executed, before the idiot administration at Big Mac realized that his appeals were still in process and that they were jumping the gun.

Fritz also spent 10 years in another prison, quickly becoming a jailhouse lawyer and filing appeal after appeal. Eventually, he contacted the Innocence Project in New York, which took his case. Williamson finally wound up with some attorneys on his case who successfully lodged an appeal, resulting in a new trial being ordered.

This was the late 90's - - DNA evidence and analysis were just hitting their stride, and both the defense and the prosecution in the Williamson/Fritz cases agreed that the old evidence should be tested. Analysis of semen and hair from the crime scene excluded Fritz and Williamson - - and it matched Gore, who was at that time serving a 40 year sentence for kidnapping and rape (and who was, oddly, in a work-release program).




Fritz and Williamson were released from prison in 1999 - - twelve years after being arrested and held for a crime neither of them committed. Fritz had a 13 year old daughter at the time he was arrested - - when he left prison, his daughter was 25 and he'd missed twelve years of her life. Williamson had suffered a virtually unchecked decline into mental illness that had been untreated or mistreated for most of his prison stay. How do you compensate someone for that?

The State of Oklahoma, Ada PD and the Pontotoc County D.A. felt no need to issue an apology or offer restoration. In fact, the cops and the D.A. continued to hint that Fritz and Williamson were still suspects and the community of Ada shunned them. Lovely, lovely people.

Fritz and Williamson, with guidance from their legal advisors, entered into a massive lawsuit against the Pontotoc Co. District Attorney as an individual, against the Ada PD, against various prison and Oklahoma Bureau of Investigation officials - - and when it was settled confidentially and out of court, the rumor was that the plaintiffs had received $5,000,000.00. Add to that 12 years of incarceration and prosecution, and the mishandled Fritz/Williamson case cost the TAXPAYERS of Oklahoma more than $6,000,000.00.

This book points out numerous criminal justice system issues, including the lack of resources available to indigent defendants, the need for controls on cops and prosecutors, a need for redirection from the adversarial system to a process that works toward TRUTH and real justice, the separation of issues of mental illness and crime, the obligation of the judge to stop proceedings when unfairness is evident, and a need for objective community assessment of the gawd-awful media coverage of dramatic crimes.

Ideally, the case of Fritz/Williamson makes the typical community member think - - it could happen to YOU. If you were wrongly accused of any kind of crime, let alone a heinous rape and murder, wouldn't you want your rights to be assured? If you're money-poor, wouldn't you want the same access to justice that rich folk enjoy? If you were wrongly convicted of that crime, wouldn't you want to be treated humanely in the prison where you were placed pending your appeals?

The rights of criminal defendants are protections for all of us. If you can't extend mercy and consideration to perpetrators of crime, then think of the many innocent men and women who are accused of crimes every day - - some day it may be you or someone you love.

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